“The Ugly Side of Inheritance: Bitter Conflicts and Bloodshed Over Late Parents’ Assets”
In the midst of grief, a family’s once-thriving bond can be torn apart by the absence of a will. Siblings at daggers drawn, what should have been a painful but peaceful process of mourning, descends into a gruesome fight for inheritance, as reported by Godfrey George.
The Story:
We meet Jonah Justice, a young lawyer who was thrust into adulthood prematurely when his father passed away at the age of 22. His younger brother, then only 19, began selling off their father’s assets, leaving Jonah and their mother, Eunice, in a state of shock and despair. The brothers’ quarrel escalated into violence, with Jonah being assaulted by thugs hired by his brother.
Case in Point:
The story is not isolated. In Niger State, a 30-year-old man, Abubakar Sani, was accused of fatally attacking his elder brother, Kabiru, over a property dispute. Their father had passed away, and the brothers, who were once close, had begun arguing over their inheritance. The confrontation reached a violent crescendo when Abubakar struck Kabiru with a large stick, leaving him dead. The incident sent shockwaves through the community, leaving the family grappling with loss and a devastating rift.
Why are Nigerians Reluctant to Write Wills?
According to experts, the reluctance to draft a will is influenced by a complex interplay of sociological and psychological factors. Cultural taboos, religious beliefs, family dynamics, and lack of legal awareness are all contributing factors. Many individuals may view discussing death or planning for it as taboo, while others may believe that God’s providence will take care of their families’ well-being.
Why is it Important to Write a Will?
A will provides legal and emotional clarity, ensuring that assets are distributed according to one’s wishes, reducing conflict and uncertainty among heirs. It also allows individuals to express their preferences for funeral arrangements, medical treatment, and other important decisions.
As we navigate the complexities of inheritance in Nigeria, it is essential to recognize the consequences of not having a will. The fight for assets can lead to violent conflicts, devastating family bonds, and a legacy of pain and regret. By confronting our mortality and creating a will, we can ensure a smoother transition of our belongings, reducing the risk of conflict and promoting harmony among our loved ones.
