Nollywood actress and filmmaker Omoni Oboli, a prominent figure in Nigeria’s thriving film industry, has opened up about the principles sustaining her 24-year marriage to husband Nnamdi Oboli. In a candid conversation with media personality Chude Jideonwo, she credited their enduring union to a foundational agreement made early in their relationship: divorce was never to be considered an option.
“From day one, we decided that divorce was not an option, even before we got married,” Oboli explained. This pact, she said, became their anchor during marital challenges, including a rocky first year. The couple’s resolve to prioritize their commitment over conflict helped them navigate disagreements and foster resilience.
Forgiveness, Oboli added, is indispensable in marriage. “There’s almost nothing someone can do that you can’t forgive, if you want to forgive,” she noted, emphasizing mutual humility. “We all have to realize that we’re imperfect.” This mindset, she argued, has allowed them to resolve disputes and deepen their bond over time.
The actress also recounted their unconventional love story. After meeting Nnamdi, she received a marriage proposal within two weeks, and the pair wed four months later. Though initially uncertain—she was young and relatively unfamiliar with long-term relationships—Oboli said she was struck by her husband’s unwavering affection. “I fell in love with how he loved me,” she reflected.
Addressing younger couples, Nnamdi Oboli, via his wife’s retelling, underscored the importance of proactive effort in relationships. “Marriage is a responsibility,” she relayed. “You don’t go into it expecting it to happen to you. You are the relationship. It’s between two people, and you have to make it work.”
The Obolis’ insights come amid global conversations about evolving matrimonial norms, offering a perspective rooted in intentionality and perseverance. Their story, blending rapid romance with deliberate commitment, highlights the interplay between choice and effort in sustaining partnerships. For Omoni, the journey reaffirms that marital success lies not in avoiding challenges but in confronting them with shared purpose.
