Seyi Awolowo, a former contestant on Nigeria’s popular reality television show Big Brother Naija, recently sparked discussion after candidly addressing the challenges men face in maintaining monogamous relationships. Speaking on The Outside The Box Podcast hosted by Femi Obong-Daniel, Awolowo described commitment as a “difficult” choice in a world filled with attractive individuals, particularly praising Nigerian women for their beauty.
During the episode, the reality TV star argued that resisting the temptation to pursue multiple partners requires significant self-discipline. He likened the experience to confronting an array of appealing options, using metaphors ranging from traditional Nigerian dishes like egusi (a melon-seed soup) and efo riro (a vegetable stew) to globally recognized foods like pizza and sandwiches. “Today you’ll see egusi, tomorrow efo riro,” he said, emphasizing the constant allure of diverse choices.
Awolowo framed fidelity as both a “gift from God” and a test of personal accountability. “The ability to be loyal to one person isn’t easy,” he noted, adding that individuals must realistically assess their capacity to juggle romantic interests. While acknowledging that some may navigate multiple relationships successfully, he cautioned against overestimating one’s limits: “If you can handle it, handle it right. But if you can’t, don’t.”
The remarks have since drawn mixed reactions on social media, with some criticizing the framing of monogamy as an uncommon feat. Others, however, interpreted his comments as a candid reflection on societal pressures and human nature. Awolowo, the grandson of Nigeria’s first indigenous premier, Obafemi Awolowo, rose to prominence during the 2019 season of Big Brother Naija, where his personality and family legacy garnered widespread attention.
His latest statements tap into broader, global conversations about modern relationships, commitment, and cultural expectations. While monogamy remains a societal norm in many regions, Awolowo’s perspective highlights the tension between individual desires and traditional values—a debate resonating across generations and geographies.
The podcast episode also underscores the growing influence of Nigerian pop culture figures in shaping discussions about love, ethics, and personal choice. As reality TV alumni like Awolowo continue leveraging their platforms to share unfiltered opinions, their insights often ignite dialogue on topics that transcend borders, blending local context with universal themes.
