A former Big Brother Naija reality TV star has opened up about the abrupt unraveling of a once-stable relationship following her pregnancy, revealing how trust eroded amid emotional turmoil. Imisi, a housemate from the show’s recent season, shared during a candid conversation with fellow contestant Kaybobo that her partner’s behavior shifted dramatically after she became pregnant, leading to infidelity and an eventual breakup.
Describing the relationship as her “best ever” prior to the pregnancy, Imisi explained that she and her ex-boyfriend, Hakeem, had lived together for a year and initially shared enthusiasm about starting a family. “He never cheated—I never saw him cheating,” she said, reflecting on the early stages of their partnership. But tensions flared as Hakeem began returning home late, sparking suspicions. When directly asked by Kaybobo whether infidelity occurred, Imisi confirmed: “Yeah. Stuff started happening.”
Despite Hakeem’s efforts to salvage the relationship—including pleading for forgiveness and vowing to change—Imisi chose to walk away. “If he could take this step when I was pregnant…,” she remarked, trailing off to emphasize her sense of betrayal. She acknowledged his initial commitment to parenthood, noting, “He wanted the baby, and I wanted the baby too,” but stressed that his actions during a vulnerable period made reconciliation impossible.
The situation grew more heartrending when Imisi revealed she later miscarried at three months. While she did not link the loss directly to the relationship’s collapse, the disclosure underscored the emotional weight of the experience.
The account, shared on a globally streamed reality platform, highlights broader conversations about relationship dynamics during major life transitions. Big Brother Naija, one of Africa’s most-watched TV shows, often amplifies personal stories that resonate beyond entertainment, drawing attention to issues like trust, accountability, and mental health.
Imisi’s decision to prioritize self-respect over staying in a fractured partnership has sparked discussions among fans about setting boundaries, particularly during crises. Her story, while unique in its details, echoes universal themes of resilience and the complexities of love under pressure—a narrative that transcends cultural contexts to engage audiences worldwide.
