A Nigerian media personality known as Radiogad has stirred fresh debate online by alleging that the widely reported feud between activist VeryDarkMan and actress Iyabo Ojo stems not from public disagreements, but from unrequited romantic feelings. In a viral Instagram video, Radiogad dismissed speculation that the conflict originated solely from debates over the “Mohbad saga”—a separate, previously discussed issue involving the late musician—and instead claimed the activist’s critiques of Ojo mask a personal infatuation.
“This isn’t really about the group chat discussions,” Radiogad asserted, referencing earlier reports linking the dispute to online exchanges. “VeryDarkMan is in love with Iyabo Ojo but doesn’t know how to express it. She’s a high-profile woman, and he feels intimidated.” Radiogad further alleged that the activist harbors a preference for older women and single mothers, implying his frequent online clashes with Ojo—a prominent Nollywood actress and mother—are rooted in unresolved emotions. Mimicking the activist’s supposed struggle, he quipped, “VDM wants to say, ‘You’re catching my eye,’ but he can’t muster the courage.”
The claims have sparked mixed reactions across social media platforms, with some users dismissing the theory as sensational, while others speculate on the motivations behind VeryDarkMan’s outspoken critiques. Neither Ojo nor VeryDarkMan has publicly addressed the allegations as of this reporting. However, the viral video has intensified scrutiny of their ongoing rivalry, which has dominated Nigerian pop culture discourse in recent months.
Ojo, a veteran actress and filmmaker, and VeryDarkMan, a controversial social commentator, have previously clashed over topics ranging from celebrity accountability to social justice. Their exchanges, often heated, have garnered significant attention, with fans frequently divided over the sincerity of their arguments. Radiogad’s intervention reframes the conflict as a personal rather than ideological battle, raising questions about the blurred lines between public feuds and private dynamics in celebrity culture.
As the video circulates, observers note the trend of social media personalities leveraging speculation to drive engagement, underscoring the viral nature of gossip in digital communities. The story’s spread highlights the enduring fascination with celebrity relationships and the power of unverified claims to reshape public narratives.
