Nigerian Afrobeats star Tiwa Savage has opened up about her personal journey with love, revealing in a candid interview that she believes she has never experienced true romantic love despite her high-profile relationships. Speaking on The Zeze Mills Show, the 44-year-old singer, celebrated for her chart-topping hits and collaborations with global icons like Beyoncé, shared introspective reflections on her past, describing her previous partnerships as fleeting infatuations rather than deep connections.
“Besides my son, Jamil, I don’t think I’ve ever felt true love,” Savage stated, reflecting on her history of romantic entanglements. “Looking back at my relationships, I realize now it wasn’t love. I was infatuated at the time, but even my marriage didn’t give me that genuine feeling.” Her comments sparked widespread conversation about the challenges of distinguishing between temporary passion and enduring commitment.
Savage, who wed her former manager Tunji “Teebillz” Balogun in 2013 before their marriage dissolved in 2018, acknowledged the emotional toll of her search for a lasting bond. The pair, who share a 9-year-old son, faced public scrutiny during their split, with allegations of infidelity and financial disputes dominating headlines. Though efforts to reconcile failed, Savage emphasized that co-parenting Jamil remains her priority. “He’s my greatest joy,” she said of her son.
The Grammy-nominated artist admitted her repeated attempts to find authentic love have led her to question whether it’s attainable in her lifetime. “I’ve tried over and over, but maybe love just isn’t for me,” she mused, adding that she now channels her energy into motherhood and her thriving career. Her honesty resonated with fans globally, many praising her vulnerability in a society where public figures often avoid discussing romantic disillusionment.
Savage’s remarks coincide with a broader cultural shift, as celebrities increasingly challenge idealized narratives around relationships. However, her focus remains on redefining fulfillment beyond traditional norms. “I’m learning to find happiness in other ways,” she noted, underscoring her commitment to self-discovery. With multiple projects slated for release this year, the singer continues to solidify her legacy as one of Africa’s most influential musical talents, even as her personal reflections invite audiences to reflect on love’s complexities.
