Emmanuel Obruste, widely known as GehGeh, has publicly responded to allegations of neglecting his family despite his growing wealth. The popular content creator and influencer addressed the controversy after his younger sister accused him of failing to support her and their siblings, claiming she was turned away from his housewarming ceremony.
In a video posted on his Instagram page, GehGeh defended his position, stating that he does not have the financial capacity to lift his entire family out of poverty. “I never get the kind of money wey fit raise family from poverty. I can only do my best and not my all,” he said.
The social media personality recounted how he has supported his family in the past, including purchasing the phone his sister currently uses. However, he urged his siblings to seek employment and become financially independent rather than relying on him. “My advice to my brother and sister is that they should go and work, don’t depend on me. I get family with three children to take care of,” he explained.
GehGeh emphasized that he is the first person in his family’s history to achieve significant financial success, having built a duplex and acquired cars. He questioned why he should be expected to elevate everyone at once. “In the history of my family, I’m the only one that has seen light. And you dey expect that as I see the light, make I just carry everybody once from poverty?” he asked.
He also revealed that he applies strategy over emotions when it comes to financial decisions, admitting he is “very wicked with my money.” GehGeh argued that if he had given money to everyone who asked for help, he would not have reached his current level of success. He cited the example of Nigerian singer Asake, who, despite being an international superstar for over four years, only recently bought cars for his parents.
The controversy has sparked widespread debate on social media, with many Nigerians criticizing GehGeh for his stance. However, the influencer remains firm in his belief that he cannot be expected to shoulder the financial burdens of his extended family alone. “I no go help anybody in this life to the point wey be say I go con later need help from them. I will not do it,” he declared.
GehGeh’s response highlights the complexities of familial obligations and financial independence, particularly for individuals who become the first in their families to achieve significant success. As the debate continues, his stance serves as a reminder of the challenges faced by those navigating newfound wealth and familial expectations.
