A former Big Brother Naija housemate, Ivatar, has made allegations against her colleague, Mensan, regarding an incident that occurred while they were in the house. In an interview with Doyin David, a former reality TV star, Ivatar claimed that Mensan touched her inappropriately when she invited him to her bed for cuddles. According to Ivatar, Mensan began touching her breasts without her consent, prompting her to remove his hand multiple times before eventually kicking him out of her bed.
Ivatar stated that Mensan had previously disregarded her personal boundaries, citing an incident where he touched her backside in front of other housemates. She chose to address the issue privately with Mensan, rather than confronting him publicly. Ivatar explained that when Mensan asked to cuddle, she allowed him to place his hand on her stomach, but when he attempted to touch her breasts, she moved his hand down. This incident led to a disagreement between the two, with Mensan claiming that Ivatar had placed his hand on her stomach, which she confirmed, explaining that she had done so to redirect his hand from an uncomfortable position.
The allegations made by Ivatar highlight the importance of respecting personal boundaries and consent, even in close relationships or friendships. The incident has sparked a conversation about the need for clear communication and mutual respect in all interactions. As the issue continues to unfold, it remains to be seen how Mensan will respond to the allegations and what actions may be taken next. The incident serves as a reminder of the importance of prioritizing respect and consent in all aspects of life, including in reality TV shows and other public platforms.